I think that most couples around the world want a harmonious relationship, but finding and getting to that point, for most people at least, is quite another story. The reality is that there is no such thing as fairy tales and their endings. All relationships encounter ups and downs and go through trials and tribulations. But, it’s how you manage and cope and address those issues that can lead to happiness or all out disaster. And call me weird, but I think that it is safe to assume that most couples indeed wish to be in a happy and healthy, mentally and physically fulfilling relationship. Here are some tips on how to get there and stay there!

Three Ways to Keep your Relationship Harmonious
1. Communication is the key to success, period! You need to make sure that you both communicate what you are feeling, when you are feeling it, and why you are feeling that way. I cannot emphasize this point enough.

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A note to all readers before reading this entry, this blog actually more applies to those who are in a committed, sexual relationship or those who are married. However, from time to time, mostly for women, it will apply to those on a first date or who are dating as well. Sometimes you just don’t feel like having sex, even if your partner does. And it can be hard to say no the nice way, but if you are not up for the deed, sometimes no is the only one word that you want to utter. Avoid fights and unnecessary tensions by utilizing these three tips to avoid having sex when you don’t want it!

Three Ways to Get Out of Sex When in a Relationship or on a Date
1. Saying no the nice way. This is hard to do. Instead of just uttering the word no itself, think of a more classy way to go about it.

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I know that I will get some flack from many different males about this blog entry, but I don’t really care if I do. My stance is as such: very rarely, almost never, is sex on the first date a good idea. For so many different reasons that it is not even funny people! Yet, nevertheless, there are many different people who wholeheartedly disagree with me, and that’s okay. But, I feel it is my duty as a dating blogger to at least present three good reasons why you should do your best to refrain from sex on the first date, at all costs!

Three Reasons to Avoid Sex on the First Date At All Costs!
1. STDS (Sexually Transmitted Diseases): yeah I know, wear a condom, which you should do every time that you have sex. However, you know nothing really at all about this person, in most cases. Even a condom only protects you so much.

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Have you ever enjoyed cuddling with somebody so much that it was one of your favorite pastimes? Well if not, then you are missing out big time folks, because cuddling is one of my favorite activities and remains on the of the favored things for many couples to enjoy together. Cuddling is like intimacy without the sex, sometimes even after or before sex cuddling occurs. Needless to say, cuddling is a great, its romantic and if done properly can be a very invigorating and rewarding experience for any couple, one that draws you, literally, closer to each other!

Three Proper Ways to Cuddle
1. The old school arm under the side cuddle. This is the most popular of all cuddle tricks. You both lay on your sides and you arm goes under her other side, both hands rest on either hips and or tummy, either or.

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Cuddling: it is something that we lovers tend to do. Whether it’s the after sex cuddle time, the before sex cuddle time, the get close and intimate and maybe have sex cuddle time, or just curling up to go to sleep—needless to say, most men will agree, that quite often you don’t know where to place that underarm. You know the one that has go underneath her body, and seemingly, there is not really any good position for that arm to lay in without it losing circulation of blood supply and falling asleep, and ruining your cuddle experience. Well, relax: we have got you covered!

Three Ways to Avoid a Trapped Arm While You Are Cuddling In Bed
1. Change the way that you cuddle. The best way to avoid this is by having her lay with her head on your chest, this way you are flat and your arms, neither of them, will get trapped.

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So you have a blind date coming up and you are totally wondering how in the hell that you can make sure that you are totally ready for this unusual form of dating. Certainly there must have already been many things that have crossed your mind. From what to wear, to what to give them, to where to go, to whether or not you should travel together or take separate cars, and even when it comes to who pays the bill. So without ado, here are five ways to be best prepared for a blind date.

Five Ways to Prepare for a Blind Date
1. Decide on place beforehand together and forge your activity plan. You can speak with the date prior to meeting to make sure that you are on the same page. Set up a place to meet, typically you want to travel alone and meet up at a restaurant, so if all fails, you can bail.
2.  Gifts. For guys, a single rose will suffice. For women, make sure that the guy gets you a single rose.

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I was never a fan of blind dates, or blind dating. Why? Because I prefer to meet somebody the old fashioned way where one thing leads to another, and by the nature of you both being single and initiating conversation, and of course having obvious attraction for each other, a date ensues. This is more appealing to me because you know what you are in for—at least for the most part. And there are far less surprises than you will ever have when on a blind date. So with that in mind, here are some reasons why blind dates suck!

Top Three Reasons Why Blind Dates Suck
1. You have never met the person before. This is the most prominent reason in my mind. You are going out with a total stranger. You don’t know what they look like. You don’t know what their personality is like, and you just don’t know them. Far too many ifs for me, if you ask!
2. The night can often go awry.

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So you met that special someone. Now you are about to go on a date with them. Of course, you want to make sure that you look and smell your best, and more importantly, that you impress the hell out of them. But, many people don’t know where to turn when it comes to dating tips for that oh so important first date. Thankfully you are reading this blog and we have you covered in ten different directions.

Ten Things to Avoid on that First Date
1. Smelling bad. Make sure that you shower first. Put on clean clothes and wear deodorant; these are things that should be common knowledge, but you would be surprised.
2. Avoid vulgarity. That last way to impress your date is by swearing all of the time.
3. Over or under dressed. Once you know where you are going and what you are doing, dress accordingly.
4. Interruptions. Turn off your cell phone or put it on silent mode. Your date is all that matters for the next several hours.
5. Splitting the bill.

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Calling all women that are in a relationship where oddly, it is hard to get the man to have sex with them. Not because you are fighting all of the time. And not because there are any inherent problems in your relationship. Mostly, because your man suffers from a low libido and you have trouble getting him sexually aroused to make love to you. Being a man, there are some really good tricks and tips that you can implement that will yield to a horny, hot and ready man in minutes.

Three Ways to Turn Your Man on FAST! (For Girls)
1. Dress sexy and scantily clad and seduce and molest him. I know this sounds cheesy, like it is right out of a movie, but it works! If your man is watching TV and you want sex, come out of bedroom wearing next to nothing. Be a bad little girl and sit on his lap, massage his chest and tell you want him now.
2. Introduce him to your toys and ask him if he wants to play. Most women have sex toys, and if you don’t get some, you are missing out big time.

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Are you not having sex enough? Perhaps it is short lived when you have it? Or, you have trouble getting into the mood. Or vice versa: your partner has trouble getting into the mood. There can be a million and one reasons as to why this is your reality. However, there are some great seduction and intimacy tips that can leave her begging for sex, and ready to take you into the bedroom. If you are looking to heat things up in a hurry, then read on!

Five Candid Sex Tips Revealed
1. Foreplay is everything: don’t just rush into sex, most women hate that. They want to be cuddled, massaged, soothed into the bedroom. It’s not about scoring right for the secret spot. It’s about attention and intimacy.
2. A romantic bath sets the mood. Draw a warm bath. Laden the top with rose petals. Use a nice bubble bath mixture. Lure her in with an inviting and romantic, candlelit bath!
3. Explore her fantasies. Most women have sexual fantasies, and most of the time they are apt to admit them.

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