Do you know married couples that are filing for divorce? The sad fact is that many of us know too many couples that are either going through problems in their relationships right now, or have already filed for divorce. This often makes up ponder our own relationships. And makes us wonder: will our marriage fail? Are there problems with our marriage? In most cases, many marriages do have problems that often go overlooked to the point of destroying the marriage. But, you can avoid that common ultimatum by recognizing the signs of a why most marriages fail.

Three Reasons why Marriages Fail

One: Adultery. This is one of the most common reasons why many marriages end up in divorce. One or both parties are simply unable to commit firmly to the other one. People are easily led astray—and this applies to both sexes, men and women, you both cheat so no finger pointing here—and when this happens, it is, in most cases, nearly impossible to avoid divorce.

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How many times have you heard people complaining about the woes of their problematic relationships? Too many times right? Often I hear—and sometimes it happens to me as well, being married for the better part of the past ten years—about people and all of the problems that they are having with their current romantic relationship. Be it a marriage or a standard relationship; gay or straight, non issue. The reality is that relationships of any kind are hard work, consisting mostly of compromise and working together on a path of togetherness, love, respect and appreciation.

Three ways to tell if your relationship is in trouble
1. You never spend any time with each anymore. This is the first and most classic sign of a troubled relationship. Whether work or other friends and hobbies separate you, it almost always leaves your counterpart feeling alone, tired, and unwanted. Solve this by committing to spending certain days together.

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My wife has a gay husband. I know. I am her marital husband. So how can that be? How can a woman be married to a man, in a heterosexual relationship, yet at the same time have a gay husband. How is this even possible? What is this so called gay husband, and how does this notion even apply to women who are happily married to the opposite sex? Worry not dear reader, all shall be explained to you in grave detail in the wordings that are yet to come. So fret not. Kick back…and learn all about the next century version of a girl’s best friend; and a married girl at that.

The Gay Husband Explained
A gay husband is a girl’s best friend. Contrary to popular belief that a diamond is. The moniker of the gay husband dates back far, to years when the gays were first being accepted, typically during the early 80s. Women love gay men. Gay men love straight women. Why? Because they are like a girl, so to speak. They love shopping with them. Dining with them. Going out to coffee.

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Have you ever done the unthinkable in a relationship? You may not know what I am referring to as there are many no-no actions that are off limits in any committed relationship. So to bring you up to speed really quickly: have you ever been so bored with having sex with your partner that you actually imagined that you were having sex with somebody else while doing the deed? Don’t fret. We all have trailed down this pathway before. You know what it really means: that you need to spice up your sex life to avoid boredom…that’s all!

So with that out of the way, I present:

Three Ways to Spice Things Back up in a Hurry
1. Try using sex toys. This can be a real spice up in a hurry. Make it an adventure. Go to the sex toy store together. Pick out some really fantastic toys and games that you can try. Don’t be afraid to look at lotions and syrups either. You may be surprised how much fun that you have.
2. Have sex in the kitchen.

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Oh man, this is the hardest thing for most men to understand. Why their woman left them and what they can do to win her back again. There are typically many good reasons a woman will leave you. Most of the time it is for cheating on her, and if that is the case, good luck to you sir, because that one generally does not have many ramifications and you are totally on your own. Sob—why did you cheat on her, your problem. However, for all you other lugs out there, who lost the girl but didn’t cheat, there are some good ways that you can go about winning her back. I aim to get you started with five different ways!

Five Ways to Get your Woman Back and Keep Her!
1. Apologize and mean it. Sometime women just want to know that we are sorry. Explain to her that you understand that you hurt her; ask her for one more chance.
2. Find out what she wants to see in you and do it. Many times women will leave men because they feel that they are incapable of change.

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How many times have you heard about your friends making that first move on that girl, or for girls, on that guy, and scoring big time? We have all heard these fond stories of intermittent displays of affection working out big time, but many of us never have even tried it for one reason or another—mostly of out fear of rejection. But, the only thing that you have to lose is your chance; or being stuck in a prude relationship forever. So if you are not religious, and you want to bust that first move, and you can overcome that fear of rejection, then read on. Otherwise, look up prude in the dictionary and try not to allude to it so much!

Five Ways on How to Bust out that First Move!
1. The old hand around the shoulder trick. Totally sappy but it works. Yawn at the movie theater and coyly rest your hand on her shoulder. It’s cliché because it works most of the time.
2. Just go for it man! Talk and see if she is physically responsive, typically towards the end of a date.

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Let’s be honest, before we even get started here men, we suck at being boyfriends for the most part. That is the honest truth that many of us hate to admit. Guys are more selfish and arrogant, less caring and emotional than women, and quite often such mental aperture makes us a bad boyfriend, literally! But, what if I were to tell you that you could just simply follow a few easy tips and your woman would think of you as the next Brad Pit in her life? Well okay, that’s a bit too far, but in reality, you would win her over big time and never have to worry? Sound fair? Okay, here we go!

Five Ways to be the Perfect Boyfriend!
1. Listen to her and care. Women want a guy that they can talk to. On the phone, at home, when they are happy, sad, nervous, excited, depressed, and you get the gist. Be there for her. Your ears are her journals. Listen and care and she will love you for it.
2. Spend valuable time with her.

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Being in a married situation for the better part of eleven years and with the same girl for nearly thirteen years, I have seen my friends have girl after girl come into their lives. They always are bitching and moaning to me about one thing or another. She does this, and she doesn’t do that. I do this and she doesn’t notice. And so on and so forth. The one realization that I have to come on this matter is twofold: men want certain things from women and women want certain things from men. Many girls I have met will do everything and anything to satisfy their man. If you are one of those types check out these five things that all men want!

Attention Girlfriends: Five Things All Men Desire
1. Your attention and rewarding for mediocre efforts. If a guy cleans his bedroom, he wants you to notice; as with any cleaning a male does. Compliment him like a child.

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Attention men, guys and boys: have you ever had that girl that you were just ‘friends’ with but whom you always had wanted to date, and you never knew how to prove to her that you were the man she had always wanted but that she never knew that she did? Sounds like it’s coming right out of a movie, because movies are based on life and this is real life. There are so many guys that are stuck in the predicament that it is not even funny. But, thankfully, there are some ways around the bend, so to speak. So here are five ways to prove to her that you are the man of her dreams!

Five Ways to Show Her You Are the Perfect Boyfriend She Never Had!
1. Ask her out already! If she is single, then you are wasting your time by not asking her out. Chances are she has already thought of you romantically and then shut those thoughts down out of fear of rejection.
2. If she has a boyfriend. If they are happy, I wouldn’t tread there. But most of the time this is not the case.

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Love, that four letter word that means so much. And I am not talking about things like, I love this movie, or I love that food, or I love that car. Rather, love as it relates to the human species. And not a mother to child, or relative or sibling love. A true, romantic love between two people that emanates. A feeling of mutual bliss that quite often leads to love making, marriage and togetherness. Yep, you got it. Love, that word that is quite often hastily said. Less often meant fully. And most of the time, the person who wishes to say it finds it very difficult to say, mostly out of fear of rejection. Beat the odds and learn how to properly tell somebody that you love them, read on you love masters you!

Five Different Ways to Tell Somebody That you Love Them
1. Just flat out say it. You want to make sure that you know this person and that you know for a fact that they have feelings for you.

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