Okay guys, this article is just for you. If you have felt, or are feeling, that you are stuck in the never-ending chaos of a dysfunctional relationship, have you, or are you considering breaking up with your girlfriend for good? Well if you are, most guys will need some further convincing before they actually sever ties with their girlfriends or significant other. And, who can really blame you for requiring further convincing. So, if you are considering whether or not you (and her) are meant to be, these reasons (below) should help you make up your mind.

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Top Ten Reasons to Breakup With your Boyfriend (Girls)Calling all girls that are stuck in that never-ending relationship where they just feel like the ship is sinking each and every day! There is a light at the end of the tunnel girls. However, it may require that you take some serious action to free yourself of the emotional rut that you feel overwhelmed by, and really get out of that relationship that you are having second thoughts about. If you still needed more reasons as to why you should ditch your man, the following list should help you to decide if he is worth keeping or leaving.

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The always prevalent topic – as it relate to daters – is one that has been heard and discussed a million times over before. I am talking, of course, about sex on the first date. We men, who are typically the trodden offenders of this policy, are usually the ones whom are most guilty of trying to pursue sexual intercourse on the first date with a girl.

But there are so many reasons why you should refrain from having, or trying to pursue sex on the first date. Aside from the fact that you barely know the other person, sex should be something that really follows up with a close encounter where you get to know each other, and find that you have many things in common. Then, after an established period of intellectual and personal exchange, the attraction physically will ultimately demand intimate interaction. So why ruin that with sex on the very first date?

Still need more reasons?

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Not my Man, Thank God!Single Girls- you should rejoice in your freedom and enjoy the time you have. Do you know how I spent the last twenty minutes or so? Delicately plucking my man's back hair off with tweezers newly purchased specifically for the task. The reason? He doesn't want to be embarrassed in front of his new accupuncturist at his appointment later today.

"Pluck and rub, Pluck and rub," was his mantra as I maneuvered around the rogue hairs on his back. The larger patch, at the bottom of his back, was deemed inappropriate for plucking, being too large to manage. I advised him to get it waxed if he wanted to impress the ladies, something he might be thinking of as he possibly reaches a mid-life crisis in a year or two.

His face fell when I told him about a new patch growing elsewhere. It seems that for the delicate sex, males, the more hair you lose from your head, the more likely it is to grow in strange places.

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Its true. Romance may not come easy for some. Intimacy? Even more far-reaching. Are men and women really so different? Perhaps.... but, what are some of the things we have in common? I think it is safe to say, that most of us are rather ambitious. We are looking to define ourselves and make ourselves stand out in terms of our successes and relative stability in a world of chaos. In all of that ambition, time becomes very scarce, precious.... and lost, in terms of intimate relationships. While the annual income continues to climb, personal relations fall... reduced to text messages and sporadic drink dates, graced by the occasional dinner party or one night stand but, where is romance? Intimacy? And if you have one, do you have the other?

A quick search on the internet may reveal that romance equates to red wine and chocolates.... dig a little further... you might congratulate yourself with a few verses of cheap poetry or silk lingerie.... why does this feel so empty already? What does your soul tell you? That deeper part of yourself that is the force behind all you do? The part of yourself that yearns for something real, something authentic, whole yet, imperfect.

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Yeah, we already knew that; think about all the romantic associations we have for a glass of >a lovely cabernet sauvignon, and some really good 65% cocoa or better dark chocolate. Add a lovely long-stemmed rose or a sweetheart rose in a bud vase for good luck, and what's not to like? But science has confirmed cultural assumptions. According to a just published study, researchers at the Santa Maria Nuova Hospital in Florence, Italy, drinking one to two glasses a day of red wine demonstrably increased female sexual desire. The study involved 789 Italian women aged from 18 to 50. What's more, those who drank one to two glasses a day of red wine were more sexually active than those who did not drink red wine across all ages.

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Have you ever wondered why she cheats guys? We all have a good idea or another as to why women may cheat on their partner. But most of the time we are always talking about how men cheat. So this time, let’s take a look at my top ten reasons as to why women cheat. And yes, I have been cheated on before, and these same reasons apply.

1. Emotional Disconnection: believe it or not this is the top reason why most women will cheat—they feel disconnected within their relationship.
2. Underappreciated: women need to be told they are pretty, they are successful and they are contributing, and often. Fail to do so they will seek this remuneration elsewhere.
3. Sexless relationship: if you never have sex with your significant other, and they have needs, can you be so surprised that they seek fulfillment elsewhere?
4. Lack of physical attraction: so she works out all of the time and you have a spare tire around your belly, but were all buff when you hooked up?

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Attention girls, listen up and read carefully as I am about to present to you all the top ten reasons why your man might or is cheating on you. Not to make you feel bad, but just to help you better understand. Believe it or not, sex is not the top reason either, according experts.

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We all have, or know, people that are single. Many times we knew these people before they single, and we now know what it has done to change their outlook, post relationship. That being said, I am certain that many of us have heard of friends that recently broke up with their significant others after a worthwhile and notable stint together and aptly declared, that they were indeed single and really loving it. But, is this notion really all that true? Or, are these people just pretending to be happy to make up for the infinite sadness of aloneness that they are currently enduring?

Claim to Love Being Single: Do They Really Mean it? Three Reasons for and Against

Three Reasons For Being Single All of the Time
One: Sick of the troubles of commitment. Many people love being single because it allows them to do whatever they want, not having to worry about appeasing their significant other.
Two: no rules.

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I most of the time will hear one common complaint from the women that I know that are in a committed relationship: he never spends enough time with me. He doesn’t even know that I exist. He never is there. His friends are more important to him than I am. We almost never do anything fun together anymore. When I am around he ignores me, but when it comes time for sex, I am his one desire. Okay, I get it. Your men need to spend more time with you. No problem. So guys, pay attention. Because what I have to offer you is five reasons why this is so important.

Men: Five Reasons to Spend Time With Her Now
One: she needs your companionship. The whole point of a relationship is togetherness, friendship and companionship. If you are never spending any time alone together, how can this be? Do so or be ready to go solo men!
Two: Growing together. The better that you get to know her, the more she will love you. The more that you will grow together.

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