I am sure there are several couples who are not in the media who are and will stay loyal to their spouse, and the media always does the best with bringing out the worst, but you start to wonder, is anyone still loyal these days?

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Most couples want to find that perfect song that really sums up who they are and their relationship towards one another.  I know with my current relationship we have “our song” and he has a song for me and me for him, but these are songs that we would never use for our wedding.  For your wedding song or first dance, you want something usually more romantic, maybe at a slower pace and yet something that still defines who you are as a couple, how you show your love for one another and of course, now that you are married, you new love song.

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I know, even the title makes me cringe. Having been apart from my man for months at a time for school, internship, and medical reasons, I can vouch for the pain and suffering celibacy can inflict! But seeing as it’s Celibacy Awareness Month, I thought I’d pay some homage to those people who either are on the rocks, not getting any, or choosing to be celibate for some reason or another right now with some benefits of being celibate.

No Worries: You know you’re not going to get a disease or a baby on the way if you’re not having sex. At least there’s that!

Pent Up Frustration: This can be a great thing if you’re in a relationship. When you’re finally together, you’ll tear each other’s clothes off and have a blast—and it will be all that more intense.

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The ProposalAre you trying to figure out the perfect way to propose to your partner, but are not quite sure what to do or have not quite found the perfect way yet?  Here are several different types and ways to make that proposal perfect and just your style.

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Surfer Lifestyle=Pretty SweetWhat do you do when your friend is married to a jerk?  "Katie" (not her real name is case you were wondering) is not a cougar per se, but she is married to hot surfer from South-East Asia who just happens to be six years her junior. He not only surfs very well, he looks fantastic. He has long, dark hair, and a surfer's chest and abs. He also happens to be an extortionist and a free-loader.  

She, being American and highly educated, has much more earning potential than he does, so has been footing the bills for the last five years of their marriage. They have no children and during this time, he has not only not worked, he has maintained a surfer's lifestyle on her dime while she has worked off and on in other countries to support his lazy ass. 

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Can you hear me now?I recently wrote an article about women who fake orgasms, advising them not too, for their own sake, the relationship's sake and the man's sake. Accidentally and without intention, I today discovered the male version of this: Faking Listening. The effects are equally as disturbing as Faking an Orgasm, although the former gets a lot more attention in the media, possibly due to the titillation of the topic of sex. (cheesy pun definitely intended)

I am expert at telling at a glance when people are Faking Listening, especially my partner. Here are some helpful cues for you:

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We're living at the beginning of a new century. Arbitrary as it is to expect radical innovation as a result, there's still a nice ring to the phrase, "In the 21st century". One of the developments I know I'd like to see in our culture is a general re-evaluation of gender roles. Speaking as a young male in this oh-so-swingin' century of ours, I believe there are certain qualities and responsibilities my gender ought to uphold in ourselves. Without a doubt, there is still such a thing as a "Real Man", it's just that the definition has changed as values have evolved. So, whether you're someone trying to be a man or someone looking for a man to be with, here are a few clear indicators of Real Man-ness.

Self-Sufficience is Manly

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LoveFor anyone who is looking for love, let me give you one piece of advice – STOP! 

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My boyfriend’s dreams are finally starting to come true, they’re within his reach and it’s only been nine years in the making. We started dating almost two years ago and we met by accident, while neither of us were even looking for love, there it was, right in front of our faces. I remember the first time I saw him.

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No matter how much fire and steam you generate at the start of a relationship, some of it is bound to fizz out after a while. Many women—and even men—feel their sex drives completely shut down after a while. And let’s face it: things can get boring when you do them over and over.

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