Ever wonder why women cheat? While there is no definitive answer, the following three explanations may serve to better help you understand what you are facing and what options that you truly have before you.

You don’t make her happy: not all relationship are forged by the destiny of cupid (love). That being said, while sad, it is just not going to work out all of the time. Sometimes it is just not meant to be. If you do not make her happy, and or, are unable to make her happy, she will continue to cheat and you will never find the happiness you seek in a relationship.

She is not sexually satisfied: do you rarely have sex? Are you never making her climax during? Or, perhaps she wants to try bold new things that you are just unwilling to try. While this does not excuse her infidelity, it does mean that you can either try to salvage your sex life and move on, or break up.

She has become bored: sometimes women just get bored in a relationship – heck we all can feel a bit bored and lonely at times.

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Have you ever tried speed dating? If you don’t know what it is the answer is really simple: speed dating is generally organized by dating companies or match making services that are trying to help people find love. You all meet at a place with a bunch of tables and generally spend about three minutes meeting each other and asking and answering questions. After which you make a list of people you liked and disliked and go from there.

Top Three Reasons to Speed Date
Takes less time, less frustration: some people like this because they can meet tons of different, single people in an hour or less and then figure out who they like and want to get to know more about.

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Ever wondered what the most popular ways to propose marriage are? Here are some of the top five for your enjoyment!

At a busy restaurant on a romantic dinner: this is, by far, the most cliché, but not necessarily wrong, way to propose: on a bended knee at a busy restaurant where you can profess your love to the world.

In the bottom of a champagne glass: a classic way to propose by putting the ring in the bottom of a champagne glass and when she drinks it, the ring falls in her lap. Tried and true, classy and romantic.

On a freeway overpass: have you ever seen cups placed in the links of fences on a freeway overpass spelling out the words, ‘Will You Marry Me (SO AND SO)?” – if so then you already know this method. 

At a major sporting event: have you ever seen in the movies where a marriage proposal is fanned across the big screens at a major sporting event?

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Are you in a committed and monogamous relationship? Do you find that quite often sharing some things is hard to do? Like sharing a bathroom, vanity mirror and counter, towels, shower, laundry bin and so on? Well there are some things that can, not to be funny, go down the drain when you enter a committed relationship; however, one thing that I hear most guys—me included—complain about, is sharing the shower. I can totally relate. And I am not talking about sharing it alone. Rather, I mean when your significant other wants to physically take a shower with you…and you are just trying to get ready for work and head out for the day.

Three Reason why Sharing Showers Sucks
1. She always wants sex: what if you need to head out to work and she just wants sex – then you are tired and late for work. Sex is great…also in the shower…but right time and place people.
2. Not enough water: sharing a shower nozzle sucks.

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Here are some good rules of thumbs to follow, men and women, that will hopefully allow for you to stop the fight before it even begins. Keep in mind that it takes two to tango; it’s not a solo dance on the ballot podium folks. So even if one person initiates the fight, it takes two persons to perform the ballad. So keep this in mind if you are trying to fight less often as a couple.

Hold your tongue: this is the hardest part. If you know that what you will say will ultimately erupt into a fight, then what is the point of saying it in the first place? Rather, take a breath, take some time to think, and come back at later point where you are both calm and discuss the matter rationally.

Walk away: quite possibly the best way to avoid fighting. If you know that you are both going to get all red in the face over something, bite your tongue and walk away.

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Does your marriage satisfy you? Are you happy? Or do you think that perhaps its time to let it all go and move on with each other?

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Exactly one post prior I highlighted the top four reasons you should want to get married, and why. However, I tend to always like to take both sides of the argument—being that I am fickle like that—because I think that it’s a fifty-fifty split; meaning that some people should tie the knot and that others are far better off going without a marriage.

Sharing your Private Space: Sharing is tough, especially when you are used to being single for a while and having your own place to live in. Then in comes this new person and everything changes. Many people struggle to adjust to this issue when getting married.

Sharing Money/Bank Accounts: What used to be just your money is now shared money. Most of the time married couples will even share a bank account and a tax bill. So if you can’t handle, or don’t like this prospect, then getting married may not be desirable to you.

Prospect of Divorce: A divorce is always a potential possibility.

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Every year during the springtime, millions of people get hitched and tie the knot. And for so many different reasons, yet they all have one thing distinctly in common: they are in love. Unfortunately, half of them will be divorced within two years; according to statistics. But, let’s shy away from the negativity and focus on the top four reasons to get married.

You See Infinite Love: This—as stated above—love is the number one reason to get married. Make sure, however, that you are in real love, so that you can best avoid experiencing a divorce, and so that you can maintain a healthy existence.

You Can’t Imagine Being with Anyone Else: If there is nobody else that you can possibly imagine being with, and you have been around the block a few times, perhaps marriage is the right approach.

You are ready to Commit Forever: Commitment is a big time thing. Not some word that is tossed around like a cobbler salad.

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There are more fishies in the sea: So one person rejects you and you give up? Wow that’s how Churchill won WWII—NOT! You need to move on past it and really tell yourself, okay, she was not right for me…but…I am going to find the one that is. And one to next fish bowl where you can resume your quest for love seeking!

You are not a bad person: Most people feel like they are less of a person when they are rejected, or that they are moron. You could not be more wrong. Rather, you are just not their type for whatever reason. So what. There are so many women in the world, if she does not want you, then you should not want her. Do yourself a favor and move on to somebody that shares your spirit and that you can truly be happy with!

So what, on to the next: Dating is a game of numbers, just ask anybody. If you were to count all of your losses, all of the time, it could become rather depressing. Rather, realize this is just a numbers game.

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Just because a girl says no, does not mean you are not still an attractive person that has much to offer women. However, many men struggle with rejection and really take it way too personally. Rather, by understanding rejection, you can better help yourself to cope and deal with this nasty prospect and move on to bigger and better things. These are typically the top three reasons why women reject would-be suitors.

They in a Committed Relationship: This one is the easiest form of rejection. They simply are committed and you have to respect that, as you would want the same from your significant other. Move on, and make sure she is single first next time.

They View You as a Friend: This one hurts the most because you have an established and developed relationship with that person that you saw going another way. To stay and be their friend is now ten times harder.

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