Calling all women who have a man in their lives that they love, but one who won’t fully commit to a relationship: typically there are many good reasons – at least that men harbor – as to why they are fearful of commitment. Some men are unable to commit because they house deep mental conflicts over the issue. Others are just bachelors for life. And yet even others may have fears stemming from their youth, when and if their parents were divorced, that prevent them from committing fully to a relationship. If you ever wondered why a man won’t commit to you and a monogamous relationship, these below reasons should help you to understand why.
Top Seven Reasons Guys Avoid Commitment
1. They don’t want to be monogamous. This is the number one reason, many times men just want to be single and keep their options open.
2. Selfishness. Some men are fearful of commitment because they like their world, they don’t want a roommate and partner. They just want companionship from time to time.
3. They have been cheated on before. Some men were in a committed relationship and their woman cheated on them. Fearful of this repeating, they don’t want to commit.
4. Career. Sometimes a career is everything for men. Some men won’t commit if they feel it will impact their careers.
5. Not ready. While men will say often that they are not ready to commit, many times they truly are not.
6. Scared. Some men are just frightened at the prospect of committing for one reason or another. Fear is a very powerful emotion.
7. They don’t know if you are the ‘one.’ While you may think that he is the ‘one,’ that does not mean that he thinks that you are the one.
The Singles Coach, Nina Atwood, Offers Her Advice
An internationally recognized coaching, dating and marriage expert, Nina Atwood, offers her advice as to why men are so afraid of commitment. This expert delves deep into the mental issues that affect many men when they are not able to fully commit to a woman, and perhaps tries to provide insight and knowledge that women can arm themselves with so that they can figure out why their man won’t, or is afraid to commit. Before you call things offer forever because of his lack of commitment, check out this video below and see if Nina can’t help you out of your bind.

