The always prevalent topic – as it relate to daters – is one that has been heard and discussed a million times over before. I am talking, of course, about sex on the first date. We men, who are typically the trodden offenders of this policy, are usually the ones whom are most guilty of trying to pursue sexual intercourse on the first date with a girl.

But there are so many reasons why you should refrain from having, or trying to pursue sex on the first date. Aside from the fact that you barely know the other person, sex should be something that really follows up with a close encounter where you get to know each other, and find that you have many things in common. Then, after an established period of intellectual and personal exchange, the attraction physically will ultimately demand intimate interaction. So why ruin that with sex on the very first date?

Still need more reasons?

Top Three Reasons to Refrain from Sex on the First Date (Guys and Girls)
1. You don’t really know the person. What if they have an STD (sexually transmitted disease)? What if they are actually lying and are involved in a relationship? What if you find that you feel weird afterwards because you don’t really know them? Of course, pregnancy is always of concern.
2. Poor intentions equal bad relationships. Guys and girls that want to have sex on the first date usually are exhibiting poor intentions. Think about it: how many other people have they done the deed with on the very first date, without even really knowing them.
3. Mental attraction is more powerful, important than sex. If you are dating, chances are it is because you are looking for that special someone, that soul mate. Sex on the first date will typically ruin any chances you have of really getting to know each other. And, the sex can always follow later, once you know that you are already emotionally compatible with that person.

Why You Should Never Have Sex On The First Date!
If you still needed more reasons as to why you should always refrain from having sex on the first date, this video (imbedded below) will provide some more insight into this matter. In so many words: it will tell you why to never have sex on the first date. So if the above five reasons still don’t cut the cake, this video should offer some additional advice for you.